Saturday, November 14, 2009

Learn Arabic

Guyz...
Especially for muslimin and muslimah, if you are adult enough but haven't understand the arabic language we are used to in our Qur'an, please consult this website:
It's using English and almost complete. FYI, right now I am learning Arabic too. ^_^
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5 (Five) Keys Soul Defender Mind Tranquilizer Facing the Problems of Life

5 (Five) Keys Soul Defender Mind Tranquilizer Facing the Problems of Life

I have to ready to face this life, whatever happens
I live in this world just once, failure is not allowed, further especially useless.
My task is to complete my intention and effort and perfect it, whatever the result is I give it up to Him Alone: Allah is Omniscient for what’s best for me.

I always have to fully aware that what’s best for me in my mind will not be fit in Allah side. In fact, I might get fooled by my own wills and wishes.

My knowledge about myself or anything else is very limited whereas His knowledge covers everything. He knows the start, the end and any between is.

Once more I have to confess that how much I eager to get a thing, I have to prepare my heart to face the fact that might not suitable as what I hope is, for that is the best for me after all.

I have to be willing for the fact that have passed
If something happen then that is the fact and it’s just one of many episodes that I have to pass by.

I have to enjoy it and I am not allowed to be dissolved for long. Disappointed, resentful, broken heart will not change anything than just suffering me. Resentful or not, the fact will remain the fact.

My heart must be realistic to accept the fact, however my body and mind must keep working to face upon and finish any trouble.

If the rice has become porridge, then I have to find chickens, fried cake, peanut, ketchup, celery, fried onion and sauce so that the chicken porridge will be special to be dined for.

I am not allowed to make myself complicated
I must be certain that this life is just like cycled day and night. Neither possible to have the day forever nor night eternally. Any happiness must have an end as well as sadness and problem must have an end. Therefore, I got to be very patient to face it.

I have to be sure too that any calamity occur only by Allah’ blessing and permission. It must be perfectly calculated and impossible beyond my ability for Allah The Most Merciful never tricks His prayers.

I am not allowed to get myself difficult by my own bad thinking that has just made my life difficult. My mind must always be cleared, controlled, calmed and proportional. I cannot be trapped by dramatizing problems.

I have to be brave facing problems one by one, not allowed to run from the fact, for it will not solve the problem. In fact it is just adding another problem. I got to be rigid facing any kind of problem, I got to be never surrender and I am not allowed to lose it.

Even though everything has its end, as my heavy trouble will gone as what Allah promised "Fainnama'al usri yusron inna ma'al 'usri yusron" which means in fact every difficulty bring simplicity along. His promise never disavowed.

Self evaluation
Everything that is happened can only occurred by the blessing of Allah Almighty and Allah will never do a futile work.

There must be wisdom behind any incident. How bitter it is, there must be goodness inside, if only I am willing to face it patiently and correctly.

I got to muse it why Allah destine all these matters to me, it might be as a warning for all my sins, my negligence or might be, when my up-shifted position viewed by Him
I got to hardly think to find any mistake that I have to fix.

Each of incident stands like a looking glass for me, I am not allowed to be tremble for any weakness nor deficiency nor mistake happened. What more important is I can discover my true self and I got to willpower fixing it utmost for Allah Forgiving and Recipient Supreme Penance.

Allah is my only life saver
I got to believe that even if all mankind and jinn unite together to help me, it is impossible to be real without His bless.

My heart got to be concentrated and believe at most that it is just Allah, the only one that can help and give the best solution to any affair.

There is no such thing as absurd for Him, for everything is owned by Him and fully under His control.

There will be no any hindrance if Allah helps His prayers. Allah is the only one control all causalities of his helps.

Therefore I got to eagerly fighting, struggling to get closed to Him through do what kind of His favorite regularly and release any heart dependency other than to Him, for it is all just a helpless creature without His power.

Always remember His promise "Whoever cautious to me, undoubtedly I will give a way out for any of my prayer business and I will give fortune/accommodation from any unexpected way. And whoever keeps on praying and trusting Me, undoubtedly I will replenish all his/her needs ". (Al Quran 65 (At-Thalaq): 2-3)

6 (six) recipes to endure on facing any His trial:
(Sufi Anecdotes, Page 16)
1. Fully believe and confident (tsiqah) to Allah Almighty
2. I know that each destined matter must be happened after all
3. Patience is the best way I can step by to go through trial
4. If I cannot be patient, then what more work I can do, whereas I cannot determine and help myself from anxiety and nervous
5. I might got a worse calamity if only I never got this situation
6. I am sure there will be facilitation after all of these troubles

(Sufi Anecdotes, Page: 17)
"Someone that is in trial of calamity by Allah, may be Allah consciously protect and prevent us from a bigger misfortune, then the calamity will be as profoundly as gift and grace."

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Purpose of Life

Here's a (lengthy?) poem that I found on the internet, the author is unknown to me.

Have we forgotten the purpose of our lives?
Sometimes we think we exist, just to have a good time.
So we indulge in satisfying our lusts and desires
Even if it means becoming hypocrits thieves and liars

We Forget the sole purpose Allah created our souls
It is to worship him alone, until they bury our bones
Never faltering, never shifting between our imaan
Remaining true to Allah, as best as we can

But beyond this belief in our hearts come our actions
Balancing obediance to Allah, and appeasing satisfactions.
What is a muslim, if he forgets the commands of his religion?
One who is blinded by dunya, and has lost all vision.

Have we forgotten that we have one of two destinations?
Hell is for the transgressors, and Jannah is for the patient
In this test we can enjoy ourselves, and be pleased with our lives
But the reason we live is to worship Allah, and this will not change until we die

In the sorrows and most horrific of days
We would wish to return to dunya, only to change our ways
On a day we beg to Allah on our hands and knees
"Return us to dunya to salvage our deeds!"

But nay, you've had your chances and received your warnings
Remember when you slept through the early mornings
When you neglected fajr, and did not keep up with your Salah
You were cheap, and you were greedy and did not pay your Zakah
You indulged in this dunya with the sinners
Preventing your own self, the company of the winners

And who might they be, you may ask as you listen
Winners are those who answer to their Lord in submission
They obeyed Allah, and realized Life's mission
Submit to the One Who created you from clay, and fear the most horrifying and detrimental of days

Winners are those who enjoined in the worship of their Lord, 
they kept their covenent with Allah, not breaking one word
Prayer by prayer, day by day, 
holding firmly to the Quran, while following the Prophet's way

The best of the muslims get Jannah's delight
because they fasted during the day, and prayed tahajjud through the night
They fulfilled the necessary obligations and did more
They kept their loyalty to the One, Whom they lived and died for

Let us reflect to how we may be viewd by the sublime
Are we of the hypocrits who don't even pray on time?
Of the losers who worship every nickel and dime?
Of the animals who don't treat fellow muslims with respect
Of the enemies of Allah, Whose commands we neglect?
Are we of the sinners whose own lives we'll regret?

Or have we devoted ourselves to pursuing Paradise
of the muslims whose actions are intelligent and wise
of the noble who tell the truth with no lies
Of the pious who pray every prayer on time

Let us never forget our aim for paradise
We must worship Allah, through all the sacrifice
For those who fall short, Jahannam is their destination
Allah's Judgement is Most Supreme and His is the best of Legislation

so Ya Allah! We ask of you to guide us on the straight path
and we seek your refuge in your Mercy from the torment of Your Wrath
Ya Rab! Grant us patience and let us die in submission
Let us realize, and succeed in life's mission

We are for You and to You we return
So grant us refuge from Hellfire's burn
Grant us the peak of Jannah with the Prophets, martyrs, and righteous
For none exceeds You and Your Generosity

Oh Lord of Kindness!
Send peace and blessings upon he whom You've sent to guide us
To make us of the pious, and to bring us out of the blindness
All praise is to You, the Lord of the Heavens and the Earth and all in between
Master of the Universe, All-Knower of the Unseen.
source:
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Wednesday, July 22, 2009

D'Masiv - Jangan menyerah

D'Masiv - Jangan Menyerah (Never Surrender)

The first time I heard this song, I felt kinda being hypnotized till I forgot to accomplish my current task. OOOps...

Then after the work hour over, I search this song and download it promptly. Gosh...Honestly speaking...While I am singing the song...I cried watching this video...The ryhtm felt so touchy while the lyric felt so real...

Yes, I agreed with Them..Never Surrender...The first I knew the song similar to this is OST Devil May Cry 4: Shall Never Surrender..Its already pump my spirit...Further for this song driven by D'Masiv break into my heart so much till I want to cry..and its cried already..I like this song so much...

Bravo for D'Masiv..!!!

Victory for Indonesian artists..!!! Go..!!!

*Note:

For the Audio and Video of this song, see my blog about Video here.

For the lyric of this song, see my blog about lyric here.





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Thursday, July 2, 2009

First

Alhamdulillah..

Finally "pecah telor" my friends...guyzzzz..!!!

hahaha...

At the end...

After 1 month and almost a week I get closing..

My first client that I assist the order of new work and stay permit...from the first phone call until the down payment done and order issued and executed...asissted by my manager, Mr. Edi for advices..hihihihi...but Aalhamdulillah it can be done and executed right now...

CLOSING FRIEND..!!!

The name of PT JARING MAS (A/C PT TANGGUL MINA NUSANTARA) is the first...

The name Mr. Rusdee Yusoh, foreign worker origin Thailand that placed in Ambon...

that's my first work...

hehehe... Now I can add the order, make it excessively...

BUT STILL...

Still I need to learn the products served by RCS...

Both lisence for company (Lisence Facilities) and Expatriate (Expatriate Facilities)...

God willing I can understand it faster...

Amien...

and the topic for today is.....

ALHAMDULILLAH...!!! 

*note: "pecah telor" is term used to express something first, newly emerged that result something significant. Example: In football game, after several minutes war, strike in and hold, the players give their best efffort but still fail...then when there is a chance to create a goal, and it become real. That first goal is called "pecah telor"...




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Wednesday, June 10, 2009

Money? ck.ck.ck.ck yupz..It is..

Still speaking about money at this rate? ukh..there will be no end for it. In Indonesia, there are many people had been died just because of money. If you had once checked the local newspaper, you will find people even "bacok-bacokan (died by a long-chopping-knife)"..because they are fight for Rp. 1000 (about USS 0.1)..Gosh..what a shameful to be heard ..

Hey guyz..
At these days, we need money. That's true. Its very true. I won't say that I don't need one. Everybody does. Even for the baby-not-born-yet had already need money, for it is not directly for the baby, but to the mother..

Most of my friends, when they are meeting, at first would chat with the topic about "how much the salary you've got?" for they already worked at certain company in Jakarta especially...hmphh..

This life is already complicated. Even for working had already made us dizzy. To meet old friends is the same. Why we should talking with that boring topic then??..

We meet our friends is used to refreshed our cloudy mind. Don't spell about job anymore..rite??

Just be Professional.. When we should work, do work, be focus at the task we had. Give a best shot for it. Full heart and Mind working on it. but when the time for fun has come, fuck about job..let’s have fun...

Little words for extraordinary people: (Jah..its when I am a lil bit normal..^_*)


For the Corruptors:
Boss..!!!
Once splashed by hot water?
Feel good?
Later on after we al died, million times hotter than that, sire..!!
Stealing is criminal and would fall to hell…
Got a gut to fall..??


For the Donators:
Go on…!!
Forward it..!!


Fort Low Salary Victims:
Believe it, a little bit but Halal is far better than Bunch but stealing…


For High Salary Achievers:
Sire..!!!
Save your money..save it..!!..don't too much spend your money..remember this life is like a round wheel..what will happen if the wheel turned down again?..and you don't have any protection? Provide umbrella before the rainfall.. 


For those who still learning:
That's a good thing to do..Don't stop your step to break the mysteries..Don't stop finding the answer and solution..the more it is mysteri, the more you need to explore and find out what is behind..whatever you don't understand, give more shot for it, double your efforts and attention on it..


For those who think smart already:
Hey man…!!
What do you know..??hah..??
You think you've knew everything??
Let me check it, do you know how to create an ant?
Know it??
That's why...Eat that arrogant..!!
Its better for you to learn..and keep learning
Just like paddy..
The more you know…The more you give thanks to Allah (God Almighty)…the more you bent down to Him (The Creator)..


For the readers:
Do it..!!!!!
Don't just read…!!!!!!




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Tuesday, June 9, 2009

lets start again

ukkhh...

Alhamdulillah..

My status had been changed from "Jobless" into "Joblove"...hahhaa

I have been working for PT Roda Cipta Semesta for a week, starting from the first June 2009. About the position? Wow..fantastic... Marketing Manager Assistant..Sounds great rite??

hehehhe

I have rented a room behind the office park...It's famous for its low price..Rp. 250,000/room/month..Its such a good way to save a little money for life..wow..With anything you need is here: masjid, market, 24 hours warteg, mainroad, poskamling, abang-abang gorengan, ketoprak, etc.Work in here, such an enjoyment..though I need to buy a brighter fluorescent lamp considering the light in the room is too dark: 5watt only..can you imagine that..??....and get a fan..a big fan if its necessary..its quiet hot to live there...hehehe

Anyway..

Thanks alot to Allah..

For everything He gives to me all the way I live..

Alhamdulillah..

...and considering I have worked now, I can start to blogging again..hopefully I can update it everyday, not only the main site (this blog) or another of mine (islam, politics, learning, software, scholarship, etc)

...can wait to start writing for blog..

Go Blog..!!!





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Tuesday, February 3, 2009

Book me a Room in Hell..!!!!

A columnist of Al Manar Magazine stories that once upon a time, at a burnt desert,  on the long voyage from Cairo to Alexandria, in a microbus, there is a young lady dressed not well to be categorized as dress, because she challenge man's desire. She sat at the edge of chair near the exit door.

For sure, her 'well dressed' arouse bunch of attention for people surround. A half gentleman that sat beside remind her that her dress will gain something bad to her, beside she break the religion and manner rules. 

Do you know what she said after? With a full of offense, she express her anger because she feel her privacy have been broken by stranger. Dressing right is one's prerogative.

"If you sire really mean, this is my phone. Book me a room in your god's hell!! Wow...a frontal response. The gentleman then istighfar. He keep on whispering kalimah-kalimah Allah. 

At the next seconds the atmosphere become silent. Several people looked so tired and slept in their dream. It is not an exemption for that young lady. Until the voyage meet its end: Alexandria Microbus Terminal.

Now, everyone get ready to step down. But then they blocked by young lady from before that still looked slept near the exit door. "Just wake her up!" thats one voice heard. 

Do you know what is happening? That young lady is really 'sleep'. She meet her death. And all passengers keep on istighfar, whispering kalimah Allah as what the gentleman from before does. 

What a tragic end. Died in a condition challenge God. If only everyone know when will he/she died.... 
If only everyone realize his/her life might end at any time... 
If only everyone afraid to meet their God with a bad condition... 

If only everyone know how bad Allah anger... 
Really...Allah is still love us..He still give us guidance... 
Allah will get closer to those who closed to Him.

and they who still soundly asleep should already realize... 
for the time still exist..




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Is God Really Exist?

There is a teenager just came from 'Uncle Sam Country' for study. At home he arrived, he asked his parent to find someone, Teacher, Imam, Master, or anyone who is able to answer his three questions. And finally there is an old man found that boy.


Boy: Who are you? and can you answer my questions?


Imam: I am a servant of Allah and with His permission I will answer your questions


Boy: Are you sure? Even some Professors and many other intelligent people cannot handle this question..They cannot answer my questions


Imam: I will answer as far as I can


Boy: I have three questions:
1. If God really existed, show me the form of God?
2. What is the meaning of Takdir (fate)?
3. If Shaiton (satan) were created from fire, then why they must be fallen to hell that in fact it is made from fire, it won't affect them, because they are from and have the same element. Does God never think as that far?


Unexpectedly, the Imam hardly slap the boy's cheek.


Boy(while holding the pain): Why are you mad at me?


Imam: I am not mad at you..That slap is my answer for three questions you threw to me


Boy: I really don't understand


Imam: How does it feel?


Boy: Of course its painful


Imam: So you already believe that pain is existed?


Boy: Yes


Imam: Now show me the form of that pain..!


Boy: I can't


Imam: That's my answer for the first question: we are all feel the existence of God without being able to see its form.


Imam: Did you dream about slapped by me while you are sleeping last night?


Boy: No


Imam: Have you ever think that you will accept a slap from me today?


Boy: No


Imam: : Thats what we call Takdir (fate)


Imam: What is the element my hand made from? that I used to slap you. From what substance my hand made from?


Boy: shell


Imam: and your cheek, what is made from?


Boy: shell


Imam: What did feel after I slapped you?


Boy: painful


Imam: Although syaitan (satan) are made from fire and hell was made from fire too, if God want it, then hell can become a very painful place for syaitan (satan).



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Yosh

Yosh…

its been a month since I got back (mudik). missed so much my lovely hometown..
its been a week I had been in Pekalongan, my brother in law getting marred
and now I am at Cikarang..again..
sending, waiting, and praying for the job call


hmmm
in fact, its not a good thing to be jobless
stay at home doing nothing...just wasting money
my..my..life
why do I can just troublesome other people

hah
when can I cheer others
seems I can just become a parasit 
from a kid I can just spent my moms money..


Astaghfirullahaladzim…
ohh Allah..
help me please..

so that I can become someone beneficial for others...not become someone who can just a mudharat..help me to be smart in thanking to You, to be a true muslim, always remember You at all time, always love You, and miss You at all times...

I've done too many things already..There are mountain sin I've earned..its even not suitable because is far more than that..A whole sky and earth?? Ah..still feel not fit..My sin might be as full as this milky way ohh Allah..

Therefore, I demand Your forgiveness..I really hope Your kindness..
always give me a chance to fix myself..assist me to always smart in thanking and become a good and right muslim and always love You...Allah...forever...

Amiin…



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